London, Oct 31 (IANS) Actress Sarah Harding has revealed that she is cynical when it comes to relationships.

The ‘Girls Aloud’ star, whose parents split when she was 14 years old, has been in a relationship with DJ Tom Crane for three years but is still unsure if he’s the one for her.

‘Tommy could be my soulmate. I think time is a great test. I’ve learnt over the years not to think that straight away because you’re in the honeymoon period. I used to become infatuated with people, but it would end before the honeymoon period was over and I’d be left devastated,’ femalefirst.co.uk quoted her as saying.

‘Now I’m a bit cynical when it comes to relationships and marriage, probably because of my own family history. When the time’s right I think we’ll know.’

The 28-year-old singer doesn’t plan to get married until she’s in her 30s, because she’s busy focussing on her career.

She said: ‘Maybe I haven’t got the same strong values at Tom when it comes to marriage. I just think when the time’s right we’ll know. When would I fit in a wedding when I’m working all the time?

‘My mum got married quite young, and I think I’d like to wait until I’m in my 30s. Your 20s are about sorting out your career.’